Aggressive title, but hear me out.

I’ve been told so many times to find ‘balance’.

I think balance is bullshit.

When people say ‘balance’, they somehow visualize the center point.

The exact middle between two extremes.

The 50 between 0 and 100.

“That’s balance.”

That’s bullshit.

Balance is different for different people.

Work life balance for me might be at 80-20. My balance is at 80 work, not 50.

Your balance might be 40 work 60 life. All power to you.

10-90. I don’t care.

But different people thrive on different ‘balances’.

So balance isn’t bullshit – thinking balance is the middle point is.

Find your balance, and be confident of it (be it in work, life, relationships, or whatever it is).

Unrelated, but for some odd reason, anything I’ve done in my life, I did at the extreme. I love being fully immersed. Or I don’t know any better. If I do something, I’m all in.

Here’s to those who are obsessed / immersed.